Sub Training

These are the documents and progression of protocols that tweety had to learn to be in service to Ma’am.

Rules for Our Relationship

Punishable by Corner Time (first few infractions)

Your sub name is “tweeky,” you will immediately assume the sub attitude when I speak that name.

Anytime you are wearing your collar you are in sub attitude.  Therefore until further notice anytime you are home you are in sub attitude.

You will recite your mantra at least 5 times a day;

When rising in the morning

Before each meal

Before bed

Other Times as requested

Always be respectful to one another at all times.

No lying

Obey all traffic laws


 

Punishable by Bedroom Time (first few infractions)

No drinking alcohol without permission ahead of time or when the other is not around.

No texting while driving

Minor infractions that have received corner time and are still being committed.

Punishable by loss of privileges (first few infractions)

Infractions that have received corner time and bedroom time and are still being committed

Punishable by clothed spanking (first few infractions)

Repeated infractions that have had other discipline and are still being performed.

First time more serious infractions are broken at Mistress Discretion.

Public misbehaviors

See spanking rules for further details.

Punishable by bare bottom spanking

No doing any illegal drugs

When out of the house check in regularly.

No excessive spending

No procrastinating

No foul language

No fighting

Never go to bed angry

Don’t be wasteful

Clean up after yourself

Maintain good hygiene

No embarrassing behavior in public

No “temper tantrums”

Maintain a clean and clutter free home

Be respectful of others and other people belongings

No secrets

No profiles on social networking sites without letting me know

All social events must be cleared prior to attendance

All major decisions must be cleared prior to action

Hold still during spankings

Cooperate during all punishments

No infidelity


Types of Restrictions

  • Technology restrictions – you are restricted from texting, checking or sending e-mail, talking on the computer, phone or Skype.
  • Mistress restrictions – you are denied my presence for a period of time. (tied with next one)
  • Social Time restrictions – you are limited on the amount of outside activities you are allowed to participate in. (tied with previous one)
  • Monetary restriction – I put you on a budget that restricts the amount of disposable income you can use in a week.
  • Dietary restrictions – You are told what you can and cannot eat or drink during a day.
  • Grounded – with the exception of work and dog walking you are not allowed to leave the house.
  • Clothing restrictions – you are only allowed to wear items of clothing as assigned by your Mistress.
  • Sexual restriction – You are restricted in your masturbation time.
  • Game restrictions – you are restricted on time allowed on line games of any type.
  • Cum restrictions – you are denied orgasm until directed by your Mistress.

Corner Time Rules

  • There must be a reason for corner time. Either I will tell you the reason or in the case that you request corner time, then you must be able to explain why you are begging for that time.
  • Before corner time is over you need to tell me how you will avoid corner time for this same offence in the future. If you don’t know how to avoid it we will discuss it, but there will be a clear plan before you can leave the corner.
  • Time in the corner will vary.   For the most part I will start with 7 minutes. If you go willingly, immediately and follow all the rules to the letter then I can shave a half minute or so off. BUT, if you argue, fidget or try to get out of your earned punishment then I will add time.   If you put up too much of a fuss then we will escalate to other forms of punishment.
  • While in the corner you will keep your face to the corner, hands at your side or clasped behind your back.   Your bare bottom will always be exposed while in the corner, either with your pants pulled down or you will be nude.   This will depend on the severity of the offense. There will be no other distractions in the room.
  • Corner time will always be followed by a few minutes on the red couch. Once punishment is over then it is done and you need to let it go. I will hold you briefly and comfort you, but this time on the red couch is to let go of the misbehavior and move on.
  • After training it may become necessary for me to alter rules for corner time. This is at my sole discretion.
  • Additional punishments that can be added to corner time can include; Writing lines, writing apology letters, reciting mantra’s, or begging for forgiveness. Depending on offense.
  • Corner Time will always follow punishment or correction.
  • Corner Time may be assigned as periodic maintenance.

10)   Misbehavior during corner time will ALWAYS result in spanking.


Rules for Submissive positions

During training it might be occasions where you need to pay more attention or be made aware of the seriousness of the training.  For this reason there are some positions you need to be ready to perform at the mention of a word.  I will simply say, “tweeky position word” and you are expected to stop what you are doing and assume that position.

Here is what I will say and then a description of what you will do.

  • “Stand” – Stand with feet shoulders width apart, back straight, head forward, eyes lowered. Arms loosely at your side with unclenched hands.
  • “Kneel up” – Kneeling, knees shoulder width apart, back straight, head forward and eyes lowered. Arms loosely at the side with hands flat against your upper leg, palm on leg.
  • “Kneel Down” – Kneeling, knees shoulder width apart with toes touching, forehead on the ground cushioned by hands.
  • Lecture Posture: During lectures you are NOT to speak at all. At this point I am not concerned with your justifications; I am concerned with your behavior.  Your eyes will remain down cast and you will sit with your hands in your lap.  Afterwards you will thank me for my time and attention to your misbehavior.  (Lecture may be given in a kneeling posture for some offenses.)
  • “Present (direction) – Making the body available to Me. I will point or direct you to a piece of furniture or place on the floor and you are to make as many sexual orifices available to me as you can in that position.   These are all nude positions.
    • Present Front” – lie flat on your back, pillow under the hips, knees up and legs spread wide, hands above your head.
    • “Present back” – lie on your stomach with hips on a pillow. Legs spread as wide as possible with toes pointing inward.  Hands are under your head cradling your face.
    • “Present Back Up” – you will be on your hands and knees with your chest resting on a soft surface with your bottom in the air. Knees are shoulder width apart with toes pointing inward.  Hands are under your head cradling your face or alternatively you may hug a pillow.
  • Rest – You may make yourself comfortable where ever we are at the time. If training has been on the floor you will remain on the floor, but make yourself more comfortable.  During rest you will be allowed to rest your head on my knee or lap.

  • Rules for Bedroom Time
    1. Bedroom time is a separation from my presence. It is another time for you to regain composure before you do something more severe.
    2. Being sent to the bedroom means, no distractions.
    3. You will be told exactly what to contemplate while in the bedroom and you will be expected to report back to me on your thoughts when I rejoin you.
    4. Bedroom time will be a minimum of 30 minutes. Since bedroom time is a more severe punishment from corner time, I will not shave any time off this, but I can add to it if you are not compliant.
    5. Expect a lecture before you are left with bedroom time. Lecture Posture: During lectures you are NOT to speak at all.  At this point I am not concerned with your justifications; I am concerned with your behavior.  Your eyes will remain down cast and you will sit with your hands in your lap.  Afterwards you will thank me for my time and attention to your misbehavior.
    6. During bedroom time you will have no access to any technology. Your phone will be left in the other room.  No computer or books or magazines or any other distractions that will take your mind off the purpose you are assigned.
    7. You will not leave the room until the time assigned is completed. Leaving the room elevates the punishment and will result in an immediate bare bottom spanking.
    8. There is no sleeping during bedroom time.
    9. The door will be left where I can watch you through an open door during the entire bedroom time.
    10. Rules for bedroom time can be amended by me alone, at any time.

Rules for Spankings 

  • Must have Capsaicin on hand at all times.
  • Spankings will be given when we are both calm. For this reason corner time will be given prior to any spanking.  This will not only be to ensure you are composed, but to ensure I am as well.  I will never spank you in anger.  Spankings are for correction of behavior only this is not abuse.
  • I will escort you to the place you are to be spanked and I will tell you the required position you are to assume as well as the order of implements I will be using and the approximate number of smacks you will get from each implement. Your obedience to this point will be a deciding factor in the number of swats, so remain calm and obedient and it will be over soon.
  • Prior to the actual spanking I will give you a lecture concerning the behavior that has resulted in us being in this position. Lecture Posture: During lectures you are NOT to speak at all.  At this point I am not concerned with your justifications; I am concerned with your behavior.  Your eyes will remain down cast and you will sit or stand with your hands in your lap.  Afterwards you will thank me for my time and attention to your misbehavior.  Again your behavior during this time will have an impact on the number of swats you earn.
  • You will prepare your clothing yourself. I will instruct you in your state of attire for the spanking;
    1. Fully Clothed: A minor infraction first warning.  Your responsibility while fully clothed is to ensure I have adequate access to your bottom.
    2. Panties only: A second warning or more significant infraction. You will remove your pants, fold them neatly and lay them on a chair or table, ensure your panties are smooth across your buttocks and then return to Lecture Position.
    3. Bare Bottom: A more significant infraction or repeated behavior. You will remove your pants and panties and fold them neatly and put them on a chair or table and return to lecture posture and await my instructions.
    4. Naked: You will remove all of your clothing.  Fold them neatly and place them on a chair or table.  Then return to your lecture position and await my instructions.
  • You will be given the direction of one of 5 positions;
    1. Over the Knee (OTK) – You will lay with your head toward my left side with your bottom elevated to be spanked with my right hand. You may place a pillow over my lap, if that helps relieve abdomen discomfort.  Hands will be outstretched above your head.   OTK can be fully clothed, panties or bare bottomed.  I will instruct you as to which one at the time.  You will stay still while across my lap and you will keep your back as flat as possible.  You are to keep your bottom raised as high as possible while maintaining this position.
    2. Leaning across the bed. (LAB) – You will rest your knees on the floor or some pillows and lean over at the waist so that your stomach is on top of the bed, your hips are where the mattress ends and your bottom is accessible. Hand and arms will be raised above your head. You will be allowed to place pillows or blankets under your head or abdomen to ensure comfort.  LAB can be administered fully clothed, panties or bare bottomed.  I will instruct you as to which one at the time.  You will remain still during the entire spanking; at no time will it be acceptable to raise your head, back or feet.
    3. Leaning across the arm of upholstered furniture (LAF) – This is a purely punishment position. This will always start with panties and end bare bottomed.  You will lean across the arm of the brown couch with your toes touching the floor and your upper torso on the cushions of the couch seat.  Your bottom must be at the highest possible position on the arm that is possible.  Hand will be clasped behind your head.  You may have a pillow under your head.  You are to remain still and keep your bottom as high as possible across the couch arm.  There will be no kicking or flailing during this spanking.
    4. Kneeling on Furniture (KOF) – You will kneel on the seat of the brown couch or the desk chair. You will rest your chest against the back of the couch or chair with your arms over the top of the furniture.   You will then put your knees against the back of the furniture and push your bottom out as far as is possible.  This is also a punishment position and will always be performed in the nude.  You will remain as still as possible during this spanking and concentrate on keeping your bottom pushed away from the furniture as far as possible while keeping your chest and knees touching the furniture.
    5. Position of convince (POC)- From time to time you will require a spanking when we are not at home or where it is not possible to use one of the previous 4 positions. Spankings are only effective when administered shortly after the offence; therefore alternative positions may be required from time to time.  This could be in the form of a silent spanking (See rule #1) or it may require creativity on my part.  Your responsibility is to obey and be still in any POC situation.  You are to make your bottom as accessible as possible to me and you are to be as still as possible.
  • Spankings will be given with a variety of implements. You will be required to “fetch” the implement as directed.  The most commonly implements and what you can expect from them are listed below:
    1. My hand – Mostly used as a warm up. 5 – 15 swats is a normal use on alternating buttocks.  This can be used over clothes, panties or on bare bottom.  You will be directed on the level of clothing at the time.   The hand can be used in any of the described positions.
    2. Spanking Buddy – This is any of a variety of hand protectors that can be used the same as the bare hand. This can be a leather glove, a wooden palm paddle that straps on the hand, rubber oven mitt, and hard soled slipper (slipped onto the hand).  This is also a warm up tool.  5 – 15 swats is a normal use on alternating buttocks.  This can be used over clothes, panties or on bare bottom.  You will be directed on the level of clothing at the time.   The Spanking Buddy can be used in any of the described positions.
    3. Cooking Tool – This can take the form of a thin wooden spoon, wooden spatula, pancake turner, cutting board. This is a warm up tool used either clothed, panties or bare bottomed on the buttocks or upper thigh.  This will take the form 5-15 swats on alternating sites.  These tools can be used in any of the described positions.
    4. Wooden Hairbrush – This is a minor punishment tool. Used following a warm up.  This can be used in all but position (d).  Expect 5 – 15 swats with the hairbrush on panties or bare bottoms.
    5. Ping Pong Paddle – This is a minor punishment tool. Used following a warm up.  This can be used in all but position (d).  Expect 5 – 15 swats with the hairbrush on panties or bare bottoms.
    6. Leather belt – A major punishment tool. Most commonly the most sever tool I prefer to use.  Not appropriate for OTK.  Expect 3-5 swats on a bare bottom.  Used following warm up and occasionally following less sever tool.
    7. Switch – A major punishment tool. Mostly used in POC position, but can be used in all but OTK position.  You will be responsible to choose a green limb which is flexible and springy no bigger around than your thumb and no longer than 3 feet.  You will be responsible to strip it of leaves, bark and thorns making it as smooth as possible.  You will present it to me from a kneeling position.  This will be used on a bare bottom in all but OTK position 5-15 swats following a warm up.
    8. Wooden Paddle – This is a punishment tool. Used following a warm up and possibly also following a minor punishment tool.  This can be used in all position.  Expect 5-10 swats on panties or bare bottom in all but the OTK position.
    9. Leather Paddle – A major punishment tool. Used in severe cases following warm-up and other less severe tool.  Usually a maximum of 5 swats.  Always used on bare bottom.
    10. Strap – Major punishment tool. Used for severe misbehavior following warm-up and other less severe tools.  3-5 swats on a bare bottom in all but OTK positions.
    11. Rattan Cane – Major punishment tool (That I do not like to use). For the most major of offenses.  I include this for your curiosity sake alone.  If you do anything that would force me to use a Rattan Cane it will be a major relationship evaluation event.  (Murder/Infidelity)
  • Immediately following a spanking you will be sent to corner time. (See Corner Time Rules)
  • Following the completion of the corner time you may come to me for a cuddle. You may choose the position for comfort from the following list:
    1. Lying across my lap with bottom in the air where I will rub and stroke it.
    2. Sitting in my lap with your head on my shoulder where I can rub your back and you can cry yourself out.
    3. Head on my lap where I can rub your head and stroke your hair.
    4. Others that you may request.
  • After cuddle time you will be asked to tell me your understanding of why you were spanked and tell me what you plan to do to avoid similar transgressions in the future.
  • You are not to touch your bottom for at least an hour after a spanking.   When possible you will remain in your spanking attire for the duration of that hour.    After an hour you will be instructed to redress and return to normal sub activity.

 

This is an example only.  tweek had to fill this out at the start of our D/s relationship.  Even though  I had known her for years, it was an important part of the process to committing to the new type of relationship she was entering into with me.  I AM NOT ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FROM NEW SUBS DO NOT FILL THIS OUT AND FORWARD TO ME.

Submissive Application

  • Contact Information

    Name
    Street Address
    City ST ZIP Code
    Home Phone
    Work Phone
    E-Mail Address

    Availability

    During which hours are you available for submissive assignments?
    Weekday mornings Weekend mornings
    Weekday afternoons Weekend afternoons
    Weekday evenings Weekend evenings

     

    Interests

    Tell me in which areas you are interested in submitting
    Online
    Real Life___ Part time

    ____Full Time

    _____Bondage
    _____Continued education
    _____Spanking
    _____Cooking
    _____Domestic Duties
    _____Dietary restrictions___ Grooming

    ___ Travel

    ___ Other


    Special Skills or Qualifications

    Summarize special skills and qualifications you have acquired from life experiences that lead you to believe you are submissive by nature and able to perform adequately as a submissive to be guided and sculpted physically and personality by me.

    Previous Submissive Experience

    Summarize your previous submissive experience.

    Person to Notify in Case of Emergency

    Name
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    Home Phone
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    E-Mail Address

    Agreement and Signature

    By submitting this application, I affirm that the facts set forth in it are true and complete. I understand that if I am accepted as a submissive, any false statements, omissions, or other misrepresentations made by me on this application may result in my immediate dismissal.
    Name (printed)
    Signature
    Date

    My Policy

    It is my policy to provide Dominate guidance without regard to resistance or reluctance without the use of a safe word with loving, tender understanding and masterful decisiveness. 

    Thank you for completing this application form and for your interest in submitting to me.

2 thoughts on “Sub Training

  1. Wow that was incredibly informative I would like to be in that kind of relationship but unfortunately my girlfriend could never handle it lol I love her and I have tried hard to get her become more dominant but I have come to the acceptance it won’t happen so instead I just get to read lots of great stories about it 😃

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  2. Sandy, tweek and I are very glad you enjoyed the read. It is true you can’t change someone, but you can share your reading pleasure with her and discussion could lead to some role playing :-}

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